Dating on the rebound signs
It’s the natural instinct to find ways to feel good about yourself again, especially after a major emotional support in your life drops away. It’s a very good sign for your future prospects with him if he’s working on something that you didn’t like or something that directly contributed to the breakup.
That’s why it’s important to look at the ways he’s trying to improve himself. That shows that he saw the problem and that he’s working to fix it – presumably to make a relationship possible with you again.
Just show enthusiasm and tell him you’re looking forward to whatever it is he’s talking about in the future with you (like hanging out during the summer or going to a big event together).
If your ex wants to talk through all the things that went wrong in your relationship – it means he’s putting thought and empathy towards figuring out what he could have done better.
Follow this rule: don’t focus on bringing up things he did wrong.Lots of guys find themselves in a rut after a relationship ends – same as women.It’s especially hard when you’re basing a lot of your self-worth and self-esteem on the opinion of another person…If you can have a positive conversation about the real reasons your relationship fell apart, it brings you one step closer to getting back together.Obviously, some people are just more withdrawn and private than others.